I don't know about you, but I need to be happy. There is nothing that can make me unhappy faster than having a collision of ideas, emotions, plans, routines with my husband. And the tighter I cling to my way, the unhappier I am.
Doing life with another human being is by nature problematic. The differences that attract us end up being the very reason for our conflicts. Our spiritual nature provides the pathway to overcoming. we learn to negotiate in love, have respectful arguments with fair fighting rules firmly in place, press into the sincere desire to understand...these are the fundamental and necessary tools to building authentic, interdependent relationships that foster happy space.
In the spiritual realm, the enemy of our souls is frustrated at our spiritual growth. The higher we climb, the harder it is to derail our commitment to one another. The more we go to God for what we need, the less access we give the spirit of selfishness... Being a warrior wife I am trained in strategies to read the enemy war book. I am savvy and wise about what is going on in a moment...I am able to take responsibility for my own happiness, seek God for what I need and come to the table with a full cup. This perspective has affected the happy meter of my marriage more than any other word or deed - ever!
There is no need to dwell in loneliness or fear another moment. Take up your Sword and go.
www.godswarriorwife.com
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